The “Goldilocks Zone” of Conflict
There’s a sweet spot—not too hot, not too cold—where families thrive:
• Too little conflict? You’re pretending. Walking on eggshells. Decisions are delayed. Resentment builds.
• Too much conflict? It’s chaos. Every issue becomes a power struggle.
• Just enough conflict? You speak truth in love. You challenge ideas without attacking people. You deal with hard stuff before it blows up.
The healthiest families don’t avoid tension; they steward it.